In a large mixing bowl, combine the charred corn with mayo, sour cream, cream cheese, Cotija cheese, paprika, cumin, chili powder, and lime juice. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Stir in the chopped cilantro. This creates the heart of the dish—rich, savory, and spiced just right. For a warm version, you could even toss this into a crockpot for elote dip crockpot style slow cooking.